Micro Weddings vs. Elopements: What’s the Difference & Which One Is Right for You?
If you’re planning a non-traditional wedding, you’ve likely come across the terms micro wedding and elopement. While both offer alternatives to large, traditional celebrations, they aren't the same thing and understanding the difference can help you decide which one fits your vision best.
At Marigold Micro Weddings, we specialize in small, intentional wedding experiences throughout California and that includes both micro weddings and elopements. Here’s how they differ, and why one might be perfect for your love story.
What Is a Micro Wedding?
A micro wedding is a small scale celebration with a guest list typically between 10 and 50 people. Think of it as a full experience with a ceremony, dinner, dancing, and decor, just on a more intimate scale.
Key features of a micro wedding:
Usually includes 10-50 guests
Often has structured timelines and design elements
Can still include traditions like first dances, toasts, and dinner
May take place at a small venue, private estate or outdoor location
Offers a more personalized and relaxed atmosphere
Popular in Southern California locations such as Los Angeles, Joshua Tree, and coastal California venues. This is perfect for couples who want an intentional budget-conscious celebration that still feels like a “real” wedding.
What Is an Elopement?
An elopement is a much smaller and more private event, often focused solely on the couple. At times there will be one or two guests in attendance, but there also could be none at all. Elopements are often spontaneous, intimate, and stripped down to just the essentials.
Key features of an elopement:
Typically includes the couple and an officiant (maybe 1-2 guests)
Often takes place in a scenic outdoor location
Minimal decor, timeline or planning
More focused on the couple’s vows and experience
Often chosen for its intimacy, adventure, or simplicity
Elopements are popular in national parks, mountaintops, beaches, and city hall. They’re ideal for couples who want a deeply personal and private moment without any fuss.
Micro Wedding vs. Elopement: Which One’s Right for You?
Ask yourself:
Do you want to include close family and friends? → Micro Wedding
Do you want the freedom to marry anywhere, with little formality? → Elopement
Are you looking for a personalized design and experience? → Micro Wedding
Do you want a “just us” moment, focused solely on your relationship? → Elopement
At Marigold, we help couples create both! Whether you’re eloping in Big Sur or planning a micro wedding in San Diego, we’ll guide you every step of the way. At the end of the day, you deserve a day that you truly envision
